God HATES Red Lipstick?

I had the pleasure of talking to a beautiful SOS Best Wife in Christ about her upbringing in the church. She informed me that it was "very strict!"

 She went on to say, "no pants, no worldly music..." then I jumped in and said, "and no red lipsticks, like mine either, huh?" She said, "Nope, sis, NO RED LIPSTICK!" We both looked at each other and laughed at that.

After talking with my dear Best Wife about red lipstick and the strict rules she experienced in church the Holy Spirit placed these two scriptures on my heart...

- “Your lips drop sweetness as the honeycomb, my bride; milk and honey are under your tongue...” Song of Solomon 4:11

 - “For the lips of the adulterous woman drip honey, and her speech is smoother than oil." Proverbs 5:3

What’s the difference between these two scriptures?


One woman’s lips of honey are represented by an adulterous woman. The other woman’s lips of honey are represented by a wife whose husband is adorning her.

Whew, child, people love to say they hate religion, but religion has never been the problem...it's bad doctrine! God's truth has been something I have searched for since I got saved on 9/11/2001 (it's not an easy day to forget). I remember saying to myself when I got saved, "I am not going to church on Sundays that's when all the hypocrites go." But I wanted to go to church on Wednesdays...why? Because that's when I knew most Bible Studies were. (Psssst, I attend church on Sundays now. As you grow more mature in your walk with Christ you realize that the church becomes more imperfect when you join, lol.)

All I ever wanted to do was study the Word of God. That thirst early in my walk led me to take seminary classes, there I fell in love with Theology. And just this December 2021, I’m super excited to announce that I became certified through Dr. Juli Slattery's, Authentic Intimacy: Sexual Discipleship Program. I have always been interested in the mind of God. Where else can you find God’s thoughts but in His Word?


Songs Of Solomon Intimate Fantasy Apparel is my lingerie company created with wives in mind. I am a business. I don’t police people in what they sleep in but I am very intentional to share with everyone who God has placed before me my heart about marriage and God’s call on SOS.

But back to this red lipstick. I love me a red lip y'all. I don’t mind being prejudged. I mean, I sell lingerie and wear red lipstick I'm a glutton for stereotypes, lol. But please take into consideration my context.

Honey, I am a God-fearing, Holy Ghost-filled, solider in God's army slashing off the head of every generational curse passed down in my family's bloodline. Coming with a vengeance for the heads of demonic spirits set up by this world to confuse the people of God about sex, sexuality, fun, and intimacy in marriage. I've grown sick and tired of the world's perversions of what God has created to be good in marriage.

God gave me SOS’s logo as a vision for women who understand or want to learn more about WHO their “First Love” should be. I wanted it to be a sign that married and single women could both share. I created the foundation of Songs Of Solomon’s Intimate Fantasy Apparel BEST WIVES CLUB from a word God first gave me when I was single to get me through one of the darkest times, I experienced in my marriage emotionally...

Isaiah 54:5

“For your Creator will be your husband; the Lord of Heaven’s Armies is his name! He is your Redeemer, the Holy One of Israel the God of all the earth.”

Sis, context is every-THANG!!!

The Cross, the Crown, & Hubby! God is so AMAZING to give me such a fun space in marriages.

Yaaasss, honey, I’m taking it all back for the Kingdom! Marriages healed! Wives walking whole from all kinds of trauma and learning to be loved by THEE King so that they may love their husbands (or husbands to be) well.

Wife, have you booked an SOS Showing with me yet? If not, what are you waiting for? I can’t wait to meet you!

Wife, are you tired of bad doctrine? Do you want to find out more about the SOS BEST WIVES CLUB?  Do you want to BOOK to see beautiful SOS lingerie pieces? 

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